Despite decades of global advocacy on gender inclusion in peace processes, US–Iran diplomacy remains overwhelmingly male-dominated. This is not an oversight. It is structural—and largely unchallenged. The Women Missing from US–Iran Talks — And the Kurdish Reality They Can’t Control
By Dr. Pshtiwan Faraj, SULAIMANI, Kurdish Policy Analysis, April 20 -- Recent negotiations have been led by senior male political and military figures on both sides, reflecting deeper power structures. On the Iranian side, authority is increasingly concentrated within security institutions like the Revolutionary Guard, where leadership is almost entirely male.
On the US side, while women have historically held senior diplomatic roles, current talks are framed primarily as high-stakes security negotiations—domains still dominated by male policymakers.
This imbalance is not new. Even globally, women make up only a small percentage of peace negotiators and mediators, despite formal commitments to inclusion.
The paradox: proven value, persistent exclusion
There is a well-established contradiction at the heart of modern diplomacy: Evidence shows peace agreements are more durable when women are involved. Yet women remain largely excluded from the most consequential negotiations. Even in the earlier Iran nuclear negotiations, where figures like Wendy Sherman and European counterparts played visible roles, Iran’s own delegation remained entirely male.
This asymmetry persists today—and has, if anything, deepened.
Why the gap is not addressed
The absence of women is not simply a failure of policy. It reflects three deeper dynamics:
1. Security-first diplomacy sidelines gender
US–Iran talks are framed almost exclusively around:
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nuclear enrichment
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sanctions
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military deterrence
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regional proxy conflicts
These are treated as “hard security” issues—fields traditionally dominated by male elites. Gender inclusion is seen as secondary, even irrelevant. In practice, this creates a hierarchy: Security first → Inclusion later (if at all).
2. Political sensitivity blocks pressure
Raising women’s rights in negotiations with Iran is politically sensitive. Tehran views gender issues as internal sovereignty matters. Washington prioritizes strategic outcomes (nuclear limits, de-escalation). Pushing for women’s inclusion risks derailing already fragile talks. As a result, negotiators avoid the issue entirely. This creates a silent trade-off: Progress on nuclear diplomacy in exchange for silence on representation.
3. Institutional inertia in diplomacy
Diplomatic systems reproduce themselves. Foreign policy elites—especially in crisis negotiations—are drawn from: military backgrounds, intelligence communities and senior political circles. These networks remain heavily male-dominated. Even when women are present in foreign ministries, they are less likely to be selected for “high-risk” negotiations like US–Iran talks.
The deeper contradiction
The exclusion is particularly striking given the broader context inside Iran. Women have been at the center of recent social movements and political resistance, yet they remain absent from the international processes shaping the country’s future. This disconnect reveals a core flaw in diplomacy: those most affected by conflict and sanctions are rarely those negotiating their outcomes.
Does it matter? Yes—strategically
This is not just a representation issue. It affects outcomes. Research consistently shows that peace processes excluding women are: less likely to address social grievances, more likely to collapse or produce unstable agreements and disconnected from long-term societal realities. US–Iran negotiations already suffer from deep mistrust and repeated breakdowns. Excluding half the population does not simplify the process—it narrows it.
Why nothing changes
Ultimately, the absence of women persists because: It does not carry immediate political cost. It is not prioritized by negotiators on either side and there is no enforcement mechanism for inclusion. International frameworks exist—but they are not binding in realpolitik negotiations. So the system continues unchanged.
Where to get inspirations?
The lack of women in US–Iran negotiations is not an accident or a temporary gap. It is the product of how diplomacy is structured, prioritized, and protected. Until gender inclusion is treated as a strategic necessity—not a moral add-on—it will remain absent from the table where the most consequential decisions are made. And as history shows, agreements built on narrow foundations rarely hold.
From this vantage point of view I recommend that both sides get inspiration from Kurdish women movements who have demonstrated that they can play a vital role in participation in decision making processes and frontlines, diplomacy, security, peace negotiations and international relations.
The absence of women in US–Iran negotiations is often treated as a diplomatic footnote. In reality, it exposes a deeper contradiction—especially when viewed from Kurdish regions, where women have been central to both conflict and political transformation.
From Kurdistan to northern Syria, Kurdish women are not peripheral actors. They are organizers, fighters, negotiators, and political theorists. Yet none of that reality is reflected in the rooms where Washington and Tehran negotiate the region’s future.
A regional reality ignored
Over the past two decades, Kurdish women’s movements have reshaped the structure of armed and political struggle. Groups linked to the Kurdistan Workers' Party and political systems in Rojava and movements like Zhin Zhyan Azadi (Women, Life and Freedom) in Iran have institutionalized female participation in ways unmatched in the region, especially in IraqI Kurdistan and Rojava where there is :
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Co-leadership systems requiring male–female parity
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Women’s autonomous political and military structures
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Direct participation in negotiations and governance
This is not symbolic inclusion—it is structural integration. Yet in US–Iran diplomacy, none of these models are recognized as relevant.
The contradiction at the core
The United States has, at times, partnered on the ground with Kurdish forces that include women fighters and commanders. Iran, meanwhile, has directly confronted Kurdish groups where women play leading roles. Both sides are fully aware of the political weight of Kurdish women. And yet, when negotiations begin, that reality disappears. The talks revert to a closed circle of male state actors, masculine security officials, and elite male negotiators—almost entirely male.
Why Kurdish women are excluded twice
For Kurdish women, exclusion operates on two levels: first as women in diplomacy they are excluded from the same global structures that marginalize women in peace processes. Secondly, as non-state political actors. They are also excluded because Kurdish movements themselves are not formally recognized as negotiating parties in US–Iran talks. This double exclusion is critical. It means that even where women have achieved real power on the ground, they remain invisible at the diplomatic level.
What gets lost in negotiation
This gap is not abstract—it shapes outcomes. Kurdish women’s movements have consistently framed conflict differently: Emphasizing decentralization over centralized state control, linking peace to social transformation, not just ceasefires and treating gender equality as a foundation of political stability.
These perspectives directly challenge the state-centric logic that dominates US–Iran negotiations. Their absence narrows the agenda. Instead of addressing root causes—governance, identity, rights—talks focus almost entirely on: nuclear constraints, sanctions and military balance. The result is a version of “stability” that ignores the forces actually reshaping the region.
The strategic blind spot
Ignoring the role of women in peace negotiation is a strategic mistake, perhapas the inclusion of women in those negotiation tables have produced a better outcome than the escalation we see today. Across Kurdistan women have played a very important and equal positions and Kurdish women is not just a representation issue—it is a strategic miscalculation.
Movements influenced by the political ideas of Abdullah Öcalan have built governance systems that tie legitimacy to participation, especially women’s participation. Whether one agrees with these models or not, they are politically consequential. They mobilize communities, shape local governance, and influence conflict dynamics across borders.
Excluding them from diplomatic frameworks does not make them irrelevant—it makes agreements less connected to reality.
Why the gap persists
The reasons are structural: State-centric diplomacy: Only recognized state actors and governments are included. Security prioritization: Gender and grassroots politics are treated as secondary. And political risk: Engaging Kurdish actors, especially those linked to armed groups, complicates negotiations. For both Washington and Tehran, it is easier to negotiate a narrow deal than to open the table to more complex actors.
A peace disconnected from society
This creates a dangerous disconnect. On the ground, in Kurdish regions, women are redefining politics, authority, and resistance. At the diplomatic level, those changes are ignored. The result is a dual reality: A negotiated order between states, and a lived political transformation outside of it. History suggests these two tracks rarely remain separate for long.
Conclusion
The absence of women in US–Iran negotiations is not just a gender gap—it is a regional blind spot. In Kurdish regions, women are not waiting to be included. They are already shaping political systems, armed movements, and social change. The real question is whether diplomacy will eventually catch up to that reality—or continue producing agreements that overlook some of the most influential actors on the ground.
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